Sunday, 13 November 2016





As it’s been known, as a stage when a young child (male or female) experiences changes both physically, mentally, emotionally & spiritually. Behaviours, manners, and attitudes are also developed during this period. This season is the season when a child goes into the stage of puberty. A lot of things happen during this season that most of our parents do not know. Statistics as shown that a few of our parents take note of the changes that occur in their wards. Many parents are too occupied with the worries, struggles & hustling of life, forgetting that this stage is a very critical stage of a youth’s life. Whatever changes, attitude, groups or peer, behaviours that a child gets involved in during this period will determine what kind of a person he or she will become (either good or bad).Many who are Addicts today did not start being addicts when they became married, most of these cases starts at the ages of 12-19. A lot of youth are facing mental and emotional issues that can’t be explained to anyone because their years of Adolescence were wrongly used. They either had no one to put them through or had someone who was too busy fixing up other areas of the child’s life or they even had someone who put them through in a wrong way. Most times, I do not blame the kid who is facing these challenges. I blame the parents because it was their responsibility to give their wards a proper upbringing. Though, the parents aren’t 100% perfect, but it is left to them to determine how their wards life will be (as God has given the capacity). You will agree with me that there are many things our parents failed to do in order to help us while growing up. I will point out a few so that you won’t make such mistakes when bringing up your wards.
       Scriptures says “train you child in the ways of the lord, so that he will give rest”. Many parents are not having rest today because they did not train their children in the ways of God. A child that does not fear God will speak at the father or mother or even slap them when he or she is in wrath. Every of the issues we face in this country all started from our homes. Once the God factor is not in place, the life of the youth becomes miserable. “Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath”....many of our parents do not check up the meaning of that scripture verse, all they are concerned with is the first part, which is “children honour your parents in the lord, so that your days may be long”. It’s funny sometimes when in the western part of this country, parents are always right, parents do not lie either because you dare not say that an elder lies. But come to think of it, were there not times when your parents offended you and hurt you? Now, ask yourself, did they bother to apologise? NO! They couldn’t have apologized because it is a belief that elders are right but we forget the fact that here is s child whose emotions is being tampered with. Many people keep to themselves, stay indoors most of the times, and hardly keep friends because they have been hurt several times by their own immediate family members who found “SORRY”, big a word, to say. Irrespective of your age or status, once you offend a child even after punishing him for doing something wrong, draw the child close and sow a seed of smile, apologize when you know that you wrongly punished him, it won’t cost you a thing. It will even help the child build a deeper trust in you.
        When an adolescent misbehaves especially morally, cane is not the next option. Many of our parents feel that beating a child always for a wrong doing will solve the issue, NO! , it won’t. In fact, you will only worsen it because a stubborn child will resolve into a collusion of “at last, daddy or mummy will beat me”. Instead, when he does something wrong and usually you were meant to beat him, do not touch him. Scriptures says that the word of God is like a two-hedged sword, it pierces through the heart. When God was going to deal with Adam and Eve, he spoke. There is power in your words. Many parent also make this mistake, they speak at the child instead of speaking with the child. I would rather ground my child and deprive him of a game or something he loves doing because he did something wrong than to beat the child. We mostly watch American films but we do not learn from them. A child that is grounded becomes sober unconsciously; he therefore thinks about his flaws, you don’t need to teach him never to do so again because he knows he would be punished. Also, learn not to give a child the same measure of punishment, diversify! And after the punishment, call your child and speak sense into his or her head.
        An aspect that hurts most, in which our parents handle carelessly or harshly, is the emotional aspect. Listen, an Adolescent, due to the changes in the level of hormones (especially growth hormone and the hormones of the gonads, e.g. oestrogen, progesterone and testosterone) tend to have changes in Emotions. He or she begins to feel strange emotionally and mentally. They tend to feel among and this is where Peer pressure comes in. If they are not properly monitored and guided, they fall into the wrong group and become total strangers to you. Dress sense changes, manner of speaking changes, attitude becomes annoying. Parents at this point, shout at their wards and rebuke them instead of advising and guiding them properly. Check it, you are who you are today because of the kinds of friends you’ve moved with. If you smoke, drink, fornicate, masturbate etc check the source. A lot of girls are prostitute while guys are armed robbers or gold diggers because of the company they made. “Blessed is the man that walks not in the counsel of the ungodly or seats in the seat of the scornful or walks in the ways of the sinners...” Anyone that is found in these groups could be handled in a Godly way using the Word; a shout can’t solve the issue. You need to make your ward see the dangers of such groups and let him or her make a choice because we all know the right thing but making the right choice is difficult.
        Having an affair with the opposite sex is an issue that we do not handle well. Once a parent discovers that their ward is in an affair, they shout, scream, abuse both parties even send words to the other parent. This is wrong. You have child who is just being exposed to an affair because of his or her emotions or feelings for the other party. It is your responsibility as a parent to let your ward see the importance of an affair, the good side and the bad side, also, tell them the consequences of such affairs at that age. Let’s be sincere with ourselves, most of us are in a relationship or affair that none of our parents know about. It’s funny but it’s the truth. It is not meant to be so, your parents are meant to guide you as you engage in such relationships. But to be candid, we could not tell them because of the experiences of the past. The first girl I ever spoke to about love was my classmate in secondary school. My mom got to know two weeks after we started the affair. On that fateful day, my mum slapped, kicked and beat me with anything she found around considering the fact that she is a teacher. The next day, she took both of us to another teacher who threatened to deal with us. I was embarrassed and emotionally disturbed just like most of you were. Her action was to stop me from having an affair at SSS2 but it was approached in the wrong way. Few weeks later, I still approached another lady but this time I was smart enough not to let my mom know. Yes, I was smart but my education was at stake because mom failed to guide me and make me understand that once you find it difficult to control your emotions for opposite sex, you cannot find a balance academically.
       If only our parents took enough time to guide us in the right way, the world would have been a better place without mess. Many lives have been destroyed because of the careless attitude of their guardians when they were Adolescence. Addictions such as smoking, sex maniac, drinking, masturbation, homosexuality, etc would have been dealt with t the early stage of our lives before things went out of hand. The mistakes have been made, hearts have been broken, scars have been left but it must not repeat itself in the life of your own kids. You   know what to do, so do it. No home can have peace if the God factor is not in place. “Come unto me all ye that labour.....and I will give you rest”. Jesus has a peace that surpasses human understanding, because he is the way, the truth and life. Invite him into your life and homes today and he will repair the broken hearts and homes, he will wipe away the scars and he will give your life and homes a new meaning. JESUS LOVES YOU
                                                                                                       
                                                                                                                                                                                                 Prince  Olowu Festus Olusesan (OLAFEST)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       (Signed)
                                                                                                                                                                                                      


Wednesday, 24 August 2016


PATIENCE JONATHAN AND AMAECHI REUNITE AT ABIA


It appears that the feud between Nigeria’s former first lady Patience Jonathan and minister of transport, Rotimi Amaechi, is over.



The duo were spotted on Saturday, August 20 at the funeral mass of former minister of foreign affairs, Ojo Madueke, in Abia state.

Patience and Amaechi were constantly at loggerheads during the last administration as they battled for control of Rivers state where they both come from.



It was alleged that the real quarrel between Jonathan’s wife and Amaechi,started when the first lady tongue-lashed the former governor for the demolition of houses in her town Okrika to make way for educational structures.


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Patience’s grouse is that Amaechi looked certain to demolish and compensate the people without first seeking their consent; Amaechi’s is about the manner in which the first lady addressed the matter in public without according him due respect as man constitutionally saddled with the task of running the state.

Although there’s only an eight-year gap between the two of them, Patience once referred to Amaechi as “my son”.


Monday, 22 August 2016



Wednesday, 17 August 2016

        You may already know that Nigeria is the largest black nation in the world and the most populous nation in Africa. You may already know that Nigeria has great dependency on crude oil, plus all the other opinions of David Cameron. Here are 20 unpopular facts about Nigeria.

 1. Are you aware that all over the world Nigerians are setting the pace and becoming the standard by which others measure themselves? Do you know?? 

2. In the US, Nigerians are the most educated immigrant community. Type it into Google and you'll see it. Not one of the most educated, the most educated. 

3. 60% of Nigerians in the US have college degrees. This is far above the American national average of 30%. 

4. Nigerians in US are one of the highest earners, typically earning 25% more than the median US income of $53k. 

 5. In Ivy League schools in Europe and America, Nigerians routinely outperform their peers from other nations.

 6. A Nigerian family, The Imafidon family, have officially been named the smartest family in the UK.

 7. The designer of the famous car, Chevrolet Volt, Jelani Aliyu, is a super talented Nigerian from Sokoto State. 

8. The World's fastest supercomputer was designed by a world renowned inventor and scientist, Philip Emeagwali, a full-blown Nigerian whose patency was awarded in 2015. This means Nigeria has the patency to the world's fastest computer: a Black Nigerian.

 9. The wealthiest Black man and woman on earth are Nigerians, Aliko Dangote and Mrs. Folorunsho Alakija. Both have no trace of criminal record of any kind. 

10. South Africa couldn't have ended apartheid & achieved Black rule if not for the leadership role Nigeria played. 

 11. Of the 3 South African Presidents who ruled after apartheid, two of them once lived in Nigeria under asylum. Both Nelson Mandela (60s) and Thabo Mbeki (70s) lived in Nigeria before becoming President of South Africa. We gave financial support, human support, boycotted an Olympics and our politicians, musicians and activists campaigned relentlessly. 

12. Nigeria spent over $3 Billion and lost hundreds of soldiers to end the wars in both Liberia and Sierra Leone which the world ignored because they have no oil.

13. When there was a coup in São Tomé and Príncipe in 2003, Nigeria restored the elected President back to power. 

 14. Before there were street lights in European cities, ancient Benin kingdom had street lights fueled by palm oil.

15. 500 years ago, Benin casted metal alloys to create magnificent art including the world famous Queen Ida Mask. 

16. Amina was a warrior queen who ruled Zaria Emirate in Kaduna state, Northwestern Nigeria 400 years ago in 1610. Google and see what she means to Africa. 

 17. We gave monetary gifts to Ireland during our oil boom and built a statue for France free of charge. We are not poor blacks. Nigeria is rich and don't be lied to. 

18. The first television station in Africa was NTA Ibadan (1960) long before Ireland has their RTE station. ========= Wherever you look in this great country, Nigeria, heroes abound both now and in our recent and ancient past. If all you do is listen to mainstream Western media, you'll not get the full picture of your Nigerian heritage. Do not listen to any leader who says Nigerians are criminals, no matter who he is, or his height and position. We're not a nation of scammers, drugs & corruption, but a people with a verifiable track record of greatness. ========== Here is what CNN, BBC, Aljezeera and western media will not tell you about Nigerians: 

 19. On the 7th May, 2016 at Howard University in Washington D.C history was made. Out of 96 graduating Doctor of Pharmacy candidates, 43 of them were Nigerians and out of 27 awards given, 16 went to Nigerians. They will only tell you how Nigerians are scammers and cheats, how Nigerians are into drugs overseas et al. If you don't blow your trumpet, no one will blow it for you. VIVA NAIJA!!! 

20. There are over 180,000,000 Nigerians world over and only less than 250,000 of this figure have traceable criminal records. This is about 0.14% of our entire national population in the last 20 years: nothing close to 1%. Shame on global media. Listen Nigeria, dont let anybody woo you into believing that you are a criminal just because you are a Nigerian. Nigerians are NOT criminals. You are NOT a criminal. You are topnotch; second to none around the world. Be proud of Nigeria wherever you go.

 Take out your Passport with pride. Be proud of our GREEN HERITAGE. Be enthusiastic of our FUTURE GREATNESS 
#CelebrateYourNigeria! NIGERIA: GREAT NATION, GOOD PEOPLE!!! 

Thursday, 11 August 2016



     Paul Pogba’s journey to becoming the most expensive footballer in the world


At last! Pogba go play for Man U



– “Pogboom” left French club, Le Havre acrimoniously in 2009 to Manchester United

– The Frenchman left United to Juventus due to lack of playing time

– Pogba left United a boy and returned a man, leaving a colossal hole in the club’s pocket in the process It has been a long and arduous journey for a black player to be the world’s most expensive footballer ever with Paul Pogba’s transfer back to Manchester United from Juventus for N45billion (£105million). Gone are the days of total disregard for black player’s abilities and modicum financial reward for their undoubted skills, performances and inputs. The leggy Frenchman nicknamed ‘Paul the Octopus` in Italy for his long legs that look like tentacles in tackling and running, and also generally compared with the former France international, Patrick Viera for his energy and explosive style on the pitch has indeed made history.
         At last! Pogba go play for Man U Paul Pogba as a Manchester United trainee Early childhood and career Paul Labile Pogba was born on 15 March, 1993 in Lagny- sur-Marne, Seine-et-Marne to modest Guinean parents. He has two older brothers who are twins (Florentin and Mathias) and are also footballers, plying their trade with Sainte Etiene in France and Partick Thistle in Scotland respectively. He began his football career at the age of six with US-Roissy-en-Brie, a few miles south of his hometown where he spent seven seasons before joining US Toray and served as the under-13 team captain. He later joined Le Havre as his first professional club. He helped the club to finish second in the second-tier of the French league. He departed Le Havre acrimoniously on 31 July, 2009 to join the youth academy of Manchester United. A move that led Le Havre to release an official statement on its website criticising Manchester United and the Pogba family poaching and reneging on agreement before later announcing their intention to ask FIFA to probe the transfer. United countered by threatening to sue the club, while Pogba was forced to deny leaving for £87.000 and a house, as alleged by the then Le Havre President Jean-pierre Houvel.
      It turned out to be a case of `what comes around goes around` as Pogba’s former club Torcy accused Le Harve of employing similar tactics to acquire his services by releasing a statement “We will not use the term ‘steal’, but the recruiters of Le Havre acted the same way with the club in Torcy.” Manchester United was eventually cleared of wrongdoing by a judge appointed by FIFA, stating that Pogba was not contractually linked with Le Havre. A confidential agreement was later reached by both clubs on 18 June, 2010 to resolve the matter. Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Pogba Pogba heads back to Carrington
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“Pogboom” – another of his nicknames, has always believed in his own abilities. His over-eagerness to compete and prove himself at the highest level led to his initial exit from Manchester United to Juventus. His potentials and abilities never went unnoticed by the then manager, Sir Alex Ferguson who was able to foresee his departure by saying – “I mean if we hold Pogba back, what’s going to happen? He’s going to leave. You know, in a couple of year’s time when his contract is going to finish. So we have to give him the opportunity to see how he can in the first team and he’s got great ability.” Leave he did – to Juventus, after a lack of consistent opportunity in the first team, making only two substitute Premier League appearances and a UEFA Europa league appearance.
        It was another controversial transfer, refusing to sign a new contract, leading Sir Alex to state that Juventus had signed up Pogba “a long time ago as far as we’re aware.” Sir Alex Ferguson went further to accuse Pogba of disrespecting the club “It is disappointing. I don’t think he showed us any respect to be honest. I’m quite happy that if footballers carry on like that, they’re probably better doing it away from us.” Paul Pogba returns to Manchester United Paul Pogba returns to Manchester United Pogba was equally unrepentant, quoting at the time “I said to Ferguson: ‘Play me, and i will show you if I’m ready or not’, Then against Blackburn on December 31, 2011, I was on the bench. Ferguson put Rafael in midfield with Ji Sung Park. Then I gave up.” Meteoric rise back to Manchester United Pogba made his competitive debut for Juventus against Chievo,and scored his first goal for the club in a 2-0 win over Napoli. His glowing performances led to appraisals from several Italian media outlets such as La Gazzetta dello Sport and other European media outlets like The Guardian who named him as one of the ten most promising player in Europe.
        The rest as they say, is history as he has won the 2013 Golden Boy Award, given to the best young football player in Europe, with nominees under the age of 21, as well as the under-20 World Cup with France. The great Zinedine Zidane was among many football legends who have lavished praises on the young Frenchman about his potential to become one of the best players ever, Patrick Viera was another. Pogba has proved equal to the praises and the high expectations of him, stating one of the reasons why he joined the Italian club “Juventus can help me realise my dream of becoming the best player in the world.” His deployment as a number 10 by Massimo Allegri has been a revelation, improving leaps and bound with every match he played in that position, which has not gone unnoticed by the European football superpowers. Pogba has won four back-to-back Serie A titles (2012-13, 2013-14, 2014-15, 2015-16), two Coppa Italia (2014-15, 2015-16), two Supercopa Italia (2013, 2015) and other individual honours, including FIFA World Cup Best Young Player 2014, Serie A Top Assist provider 2015-2016 amongst other honours.
        With all these achievements, it was only a matter of time before Manchester United come calling back. Eating a huge dollop of humble pie in the process of realizing the club’s gravest mistake in its history, for letting him leave to Juventus in 2012, most importantly for a pittance. Paul Pogba honours
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However, credit must be given to the old Trafford outfit for swallowing their pride and jumping in at the deep end to make the reunion happen. Reunion prognosis Pogba’s return to the Theatre of Dreams can be concluded to be a combination of unfinished business, the lure of being coached by Mourinho, ambition, ego, financial incentive and above all, the promise that he will be the focal point with the team constructed around him.
           It surely wasn’t for Champions League football this season, but rather Europa League. He’s renowned for his versatility in the middle of the park, a box to box midfielder but most effective in the number 10 role. It is yet to be seen where Mr Mourinho will deploy him. With his experience, he must have a plan thought out. Pogba is an attack minded midfielder and will be expected to be a game charger, especially with that huge price tag on his head. Scrutiny will come with the territory. He is capable of playing in any position on the field but will need a regular role where he can consistently turn in excellent performances to justify the humongous price tag. If pre-season is anything to go by, Mourinho favoured 4-2-3-1 system, and in that system Pogba would probably be one of the two holding midfielders rather than a No 10 where the club is already spoilt for choice. One thing is certain, Mourinho would not have signed Pogba without a definite team plan, what remains to be seen is how that plan is implemented.

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